This installment of our “Why Block Porn” series focuses on pornography’s impact on marriages and spouses.
Like smoking, pornography has the most impact on users. However, just like second hand smoke, those surrounding pornography users can be drastically affected. The most dramatic example of this phenomenon is pornography’s impact on a user’s spouse.
And yet, pornography users often think the only people they hurt are themselves. Here are several reasons why “second hand pornography” is so destructive.
Porn ruins your spouse’s self esteem
It’s bad enough that everywhere your wife looks she sees photoshopped bikini models, “Ten ways to keep him interested,” “Get rid of stretch marks overnight,” and “Lose 15 pounds in 5 days!” Now even her husband is fascinated with made up, surgically enhanced, and digitally altered actresses.
Husbands are vulnerable as well. Pornography depicts unrealistic male bodies as well as physiologically impossible results. With all the pixelated fireworks, men feel they just can’t measure up.
Porn takes your spouse’s marriage
After watching pornography, viewers reported being less in love with their spouse than before. Spouses of porn addicts find that their loving, caring partner is replaced by a moody, secretive stranger. When your spouse realizes that his/her spouse’s feelings are waning, the intimacy and trust in that relationship decrease as well.
Porn attacks your spouse’s mental health
Upon learning their spouse has been viewing pornography, most spouses feel angry, hurt, and betrayed. But for some, the emotional effects continue and get stronger. Many spouses experience anxiety and depression. To make matters worse, they feel incredibly lonely as they feel they must keep their partner’s secret, so they have no one to turn to.
Regardless of what you may have thought, pornography is not a victimless habit. For the sake of your spouse (future or otherwise), block pornography from your house. Visit Cleanrouter.com to purchase your Clean Router Pro and protect your family today!